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Lisa Foderaro of The New York Times reports that after four years of war and occupations, some are Old enough now to hear how a parent died at war.
CamerynLee was only 3 years old when her father, Lance Cpl. Eric J. Orlowski, a Marine Corps reservist, was killed in an accidental shooting during the first days of the Iraq war. Now 8, she is suddenly hungry for information about the man she remembers only in sketchy vignettes…
In a grim marker of the longevity of the war, children who were infants or toddlers when they lost a parent in action are growing up. In the process, they are coming to grips with death in new, more mature and at times more painful ways — pondering a parent they barely knew, asking pointed questions about the circumstances of the death and experiencing a kind of delayed grief…
Ms. Kross also showed her daughter a letter that her husband wrote from Kuwait City, which began, “What’s up ladies?” He ended it by telling CamerynLee to be a “good girl for Mommy” and urging Nicole, a former Air Force Reservist, to “take care of yourself.”
It was the first time that Ms. Kross had shown the letter to CamerynLee, a sprite of a girl with a gentle voice and large blue eyes.
“I think about him every day,” CamerynLee said as she studied the letter. “I remember cooking with him. He was helping me flip the sausages. I remember him carrying me. I wish he was still alive.”
I think the impact on these children’s lives is a deep, deep scar America. Not only will these children be forever paying for Bush’s total, endless wars, but they also lost a parent who loved and cared for them. The world becomes a little lonelier when a parent dies, but to lose a father or mother to a war of choice is horrible. How many more mommies and daddies need to die? Why?
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According to the Washington Post, More emigrants head east, not west, for a better life. Ariana Eunjung Cha reports:
For a growing number of the world’s emigrants, China — not the United States — is the land where opportunities are endless, individual enterprise is rewarded and tolerance is universal…
While China doesn’t officially encourage immigration, it has made it increasingly easy — especially for businesspeople or those with entrepreneurial dreams and the cash to back them up — to get long-term visas. Usually, all it takes is getting an invitation letter from a local company or paying a broker $500 to write one for you.
There are now more than 450,000 people in China with one- to five-year renewable residence permits, almost double the 230,000 who had such permits in 2003. An additional 700 foreigners carry the highly coveted green cards introduced under a system that went into effect in 2004.
China’s approach seems to be strategically centered on countries where “long-term contracts for oil, gas and minerals” are possible. Part of the Chinese plans is to “portray” their country “as more open to Islam than other non-Muslim nations.” The Chinese government, over the past 20 years, have allowed mosques and other cultural institutions, including schools, to be rebuilt.
“In America, for people with my religion there can be a lot of problems,” said Adamou Salissou, 25, from Niger. “The image they have of Muslims is that they are terrorists. Chinese don’t have a problem with religion. They think, ‘It’s your religion and it’s okay.’ “
There’s still more today below the fold, including a story about Iraqi refugees in Kurdistan fearing an attack from Turkey, another episode of “Guns of Greed”, and a bonus story about Neanderthals. Plus, remember Four at Four is, as always an OPEN THREAD. See you on the flip side.