As some of you may know I’m still an active member of RedState. The subject comes to mind because in addition to all the Candidate Crap I spent a little time in a diary about RedState that I found uncomfortable.
The diarist was amazed that they could be ‘wasting’ their time talking about anything but politics.
I pointed out that the blurb is “Conservative News and Community.”
Now the reason I still survive is I don’t go there much and never if I disagree about politics. I talk about sports mostly, I grieved with Streiff about the passing of the F-14 because in Harpoon Phoenix missiles kick ass and you can never have enough. Leon thinks I’m unserious because I supported Online Integrity, but then again Booman thinks I’m an ass clown so there you go.
You can’t get hung up on civility.
Now by community what I mean is what I was seeking when I joined dK, a place where I could express myself without worrying about pissing everyone off if I happened to let slip that I thought W was an asshole (I have since amended my judgment to war criminal). I never intended that every waking minute be devoted to that opinion, just that it shouldn’t disqualify me from being an ok person to have it.
At the same time I have the experience to understand that communities are complex structures, and ambition and jealousy and struggles for power are just the way monkeys interact in groups. Smart monkeys learn to pursue their own banana.
My guiding principle is this- there are no bad opinions, but there are bad actors.
“It is the madness of folly to expect mercy from those who have refused to do justice. Even mercy, where conquest is the object, is only a trick of war.”- Tom Paine